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CSLaDue
on 02/28/2022 at 11:53 PM
Rob- I want to express to you that your not alone, no matter how hard this maybe for you the Lord is your Father and is with you. I can completely understand where you are at and feel for your pain and suffering in this trial your going through. I myself was married for 20yrs and on yr 15 the man’s wife that she was sleeping with showed up at my station to inform me her husband and my wife have been having an affair for months. I tried everything to make it work, to not break the covenant, though she already broke it. Come to find out it happened numerous times during our marriage. We have three kids one moved out and the other two with me full time.All I can say is stay strong, in the word and in constant prayer.. Letting it lay at the Lords feet. Focus on your walk and where you are at now and let the Lord work in her and you. I tried to fight it and fix it for 5years over and over to nothing but disappointment and hurt and her going to it again, it’s not mine to fix. I got to the point to where I could look at myself and say I did all I could but it’s the Lord who needs to help this and let His will be done no matter what. Stay strong, and just remember your not alone, He is always with you.
Dontrell G.
on 02/28/2022 at 09:57 PM
Thank you all for the prayers and encouragement! Exam passed, and I'm now Security certified!
I also want to thank you all for opening up on this thread today. it's so important as men to be able to get things off of our chests in a healthy manner and environment.
To all the fellas struggling with porn, masturbation, lust, sexual immorality, and similar issues, I found my freedom came when I became active in the local church. When you know guys are going to see you face-to-face and dive into life with you things will start to change. one of my brothers simply told me, "you need to learn how to love God more than you love your sin," and that just resonated with me to fight the good fight!
I'll be going through and praying for each of you this evening!
Dano
on 02/28/2022 at 06:53 PM
My 13yr old daughter has recently been diagnosed with a rare cancer. We’ve been through several appointments so the drs understand the pathology of the cancer but we’re in this waiting period that is weighing so heavily on heart. We had a great weekend, lots of hanging out and laughing. This morning she was excited to go to school and see her friends but then the pain started. She’s home resting and that just crushed my heart, we do want her to be with friends, be a 13yr old girl. Trying to hold steadfast in Christ!
Mike
on 02/28/2022 at 05:38 PM
Rob - prayers for you and your family first of all. Secondly, remember to keep yourself fit mentally and physically for your children. They are going to need a strong role model and someone to point them to Christ as their source of strength. Your Ex needs to find herself by herself. She leans on other people including you to fill a hole inside of her. You will not fill that and it’s not in your control. So don’t beat yourself up. Walk your walk and be an example to the kids and know that your brothers are praying for you!!
John
on 02/28/2022 at 02:54 PM
Juan and Rob, I’m praying for both of you!
Ashley Jarvis
on 02/28/2022 at 02:00 PM
Josh, it sounds like you’ve done what all you can to prepare, now find peace in knowing God will bring to your mind the answers when needed… Let him be the calm in your mind. Juan, what helped me, was keeping track of the date I’d last watched porn, or any other sinful lustful act. The Devil will put many thoughts in our heads, it’s our decision to act on them. Praying to God, will stop the obsession right there in that very moment, it’s powerful! I’ve been sober for 15 months off alcohol, 27 months cocaine, and 6 months from porn. There’s a certain value in keeping a date, you don’t want to start it over. It helped me, I hope it helps you
Rob
on 02/28/2022 at 01:59 PM
Wow I don’t do this but where do I start? Really struggling with fear of the future and loneliness. Divorced just 4 months ago after almost 10 years together and this has been a brutal month. My 18 year old nephew was found deceased a year ago today in his apartment. Valentines Day my ex told me she was pregnant by another man she’s been on and off with since before we divorced. The Monday before that she expressed that she still loved and hoped we’d eventually reconcile and still be able to celebrate 20 years together. This pregnancy is with a man she’s broken up with 4 times and admitted she doesn’t really want to be with and it’s wrecking me. We have 2 school age kids that we coparent neither are my bio kids but I’m their only father and have been. Then just last night she notified me I’d have to keep the dogs we’ve been doing shared custody with and have had for 8 years or re home them because of her pregnancy. I’m just so irritated and hurt. It seems it’s something new at every turn and I’m exhausted and afraid. Trying my best to surrender it all to God but I’m heavy, oh so burdened.
joshua
on 02/28/2022 at 01:52 PM
Thank you so much guys I really appreciate all your encouragement 💚💙
brian hollingworth
on 02/28/2022 at 01:49 PM
Total surrender, thats all it takes. For some its easy, i know i have a hard time giving everything to god. I pray about it, and give him a little pray and a little more. Total surrender.
Boyce Moses
on 02/28/2022 at 01:35 PM
Juan, you have a lot of brothers here pulling for you that have probably had the same problem, I know I have. You have made a big step by admitting it and seeking help. As mentioned, the next big step is forgiving yourself! Prayers for you brother, give it to God, get close to Him. God bless!
Boyce Moses
on 02/28/2022 at 01:31 PM
Give it to God, and let Him take care of it. All of our time spent worrying does us no good. Trust in the Father, even when we don’t we don’t understand. Love you Jesus! ❤️🧡💛💚
Bryan Mohr
on 02/28/2022 at 01:23 PM
Juan, I too have struggled with this in the past. It was only through growing closer to God that I was able to overcome this. I tried Sexaholics Anonymous, but it was diving into God’s Word and accountability with a mens group that I worked through it. One of the hardest things to come to terms with was forgiving myself. I knew that I was forgiven through the blood of Christ, but I had a hard time forgiving myself. Had to learn some hard lessons but now I am on the other side. There are times I struggle with the urge to look, but I know it is a trap from Satan. If there is anything I can help with let me know. I will add you to my prayers because I believe only God can help win this battle.
jjuan_47@yahoo.com
on 02/28/2022 at 01:11 PM
Thank you so much Scott I appreciate your support so much
Scott Beebe
on 02/28/2022 at 01:02 PM
Juan, you’re not alone and this was a battle in my past. If I am not careful, it can still become another issue. The Lord hears your prayer and most importantly, He forgives you of your sin that you struggle with, Amen!! Hang in there and try not to beat yourself up over this issue, you’re not alone, believe me!!
Scott Beebe
on 02/28/2022 at 12:58 PM
Last night I felt worried about the future and what would I do if something happened to my wife like a sudden passing? Would I be prepared mentally and would I be okay financially??? I know it sounds odd but the thought came to mind. Lord help me not worry about the future and allow me to place every day in the control of your omnipotence, Amen.
jjuan_47@yahoo.com
on 02/28/2022 at 12:49 PM
I’m worried that I won’t be able to stop masturbation and sexting please help me with this
Michael
on 02/28/2022 at 12:11 PM
Prayed for you Dontrell.
joe meyers
on 02/28/2022 at 12:10 PM
God will get you there my friend. No doubt in my mind. Reach ut to him right before you dig in.
mrjones03@gmail.com
on 02/28/2022 at 12:04 PM
Good luck Dontrell. You got this. God is with you
Dontrell G.
on 02/28/2022 at 09:30 AM
In this moment I'm worried about a certification exam I have to take today. I've been studying for the CompTIA Security exam a little over a month, and I've been feeling worried about not passing it on my first attempt. In the midst of studying an hour ago I just felt an urge to put it away and spend time with our Heavenly Father.
After reading today's lesson I'm convinced of the urge from the Holy Spirit to remove the trust I've been putting in myself in order to trust God. I'm confident the Lord will help bring to memory all I have studied, and I will pass this test!
59/365: Taking Control Of Worry
Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. ~ Philippians 4: 6-7
Don't get caught up in the tangles of worry. Being anxious about things beyond your control is a waste of time and it strangles your peace.
Trusting God means letting go of those things beyond your control. Relax your grip and hand it over to God's grace, love, and mercy.
Take control of your worry:
- Give your worry a name
- Confess it to God and others
- Pray for it's death
- Give thanks to God for the win
GO DEEPER: Psalm 27: 1-5
NEXT STEP: What are you worried about right now? Begin your confession right here - right now.